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Couples' Stories

These are stories contributed by real interracial, multicultural, international, and interfaith couples. You can contribute your own story, but make sure you login or register first.


Tue, 03/06/2012 - 8:58pm -- MrandMrsKiser
Case Manager

Christopher and I are from two of the least diverse places in the world - he comes from Cooperstown which is primarily white and I come from Barbados which is primarily black.

Some way and some how, we both ended up in Cortland, NY - another not-so-diverse area in Upstate, NY where it is exceedingly rare to find a white man dating a black woman and we still get the sideways looks and glances.

Josh, Amberli and Baby Vince

Wed, 02/15/2012 - 11:55pm -- JoshAmberliandV...
Student and Mom

When I met Josh, I only noticed that he was Korean when my friend jokingly called him ,"Bruce Lee." I could see something in him that drew me to him and getting to know him. In the early stages of dating I would get so uncomfortable when he would crack Asian jokes but I learned to deal with them.

He said he loved me very early in the relationship but I didn't take too much longer to feel it too. I laugh these days when I think of the "love" that I felt for him then compared to the true love that I feel for him now after 5 years of getting to know him on a deeper level.


Sat, 01/21/2012 - 8:12am -- yastoh
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My hUsband and I were married on August 3rd 2002
We meet in the house We were boarding my as a International student from Panama and He was a student at the University of WIndsor (Canada) we were both shy, but it was love at first sight. Our families were really happy for us , here we are now almost ten years and one beautil daugther


Sat, 01/07/2012 - 2:09pm -- mrslaff5
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Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA)

My husband and I were married on 6/12/10.

We met in college, but were both shy. So, despite the fact that we were attracted to one another, nothing came of it. A year later, my roommate formally introduced us. We were inseparable ever since. Alex proposed to me in November of 2008 and we immediately planned our wedding to take place on Loving Day in 2010.

Alex (who is Colombian) was adopted by Caucasian parents at around 9 months of age. His parents were so accepting of our relationship and marriage.

Tim and Yasuko

Sat, 10/29/2011 - 9:46pm -- timtak
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I did not know what "miscegenation" was or that it was once illegal until it was mentioned in connection with Obama three years ago. I am happily interacially married these ten years. Today I was looking up the wikipedia article and realised I was born on Loving Day (or two years before, in 1965). I guess that there are nearly a million Americans born on Loving Day. I wonder what percentage of them are inter-racially married? If there were a global law requiring that people only maried interacially, I wonder how long it would be before there'd be no more war.

Ramone and Christy

Sun, 10/02/2011 - 1:46pm -- christywatson

I am a white woman and my husband is a black man. My husband and I met and fell in love when I was 17 and he was 19. We went to the same HS. Just a couple of weeks after meeting him I knew I wanted to marry him, even at 17 years old. Living in Alabama is like living 20 years ago so my family had a huge problem with me marrying a black man. I had a family member that had such a big problem with it that he just met my husband 2 years ago, after him and I had been married 9 years and had 2 children together.

Asia & Ryan (:

Sat, 09/10/2011 - 12:31am -- brown_sugga_93
full time students

It's crazy sometimes when people say that they dont believe in true love... but i do ( : . i met my boyfriend when i was in the 3 rd grade. We were bestfriends always got in trouble together, i even went over his house once.
After switching schools in the 4th grade i didnt see him after that. My senior year of high school i seen this guy in my gym class, im like ''wow he's sexy" lol. After noticing that ryan had my English class i decided to step up to the plate and give him my number.

Joan H.

Sun, 07/03/2011 - 4:36pm -- Joan H.

Twenty years ago my husband and I were married at a courthouse in Maryland. We crossed the line from D.C. to do this but I can't remember the original reason. I think it had to do with the fact that Maryland did not require a blood test. My husband hates needles.

A small sour woman read the words we were to repeat without emotion and without a smile. It was clear she didn't like having to marry an interracial couple. She smiled at other couples. I saw her. She walked away without looking at us as she pronounced us husband and wife.

Joshua Berg

Tue, 06/28/2011 - 12:08pm -- jberg
Children's performer

My wife is black and I am from a white Jewish family. When we announced our marriage, the family was very happy as far as I could tell.

However, my slightly senile Jewish grandmother had one issue. She grew up with white Jews marrying white Jews and having white Jewish children.

One day she confided to my cousin that she was upset. My cousin asked why and she said that, if we had children, she wasn't sure if she would be able to love them.

My cousin immediately said "Don't be silly Nana, of course you will." She may have used even harsher words, knowing my cousin.